The purpose of highlighting these facts is not to diminish the roles of our mothers, wives, daughters, and sisters. Rather, it is to acknowledge that males face tremendous challenges in their natural roles as protectors, providers, and leaders within their families, which are essential to the strength of our society.

While online dating offers convenience and a broad pool of potential matches, it is clear that it is set up to allow selection based on promiscuity and good advertising. We are being fooled into swiping for our lusts rather than investigating for the future of our families and tribe. Dating within a church community provides a unique opportunity to build a relationship grounded in shared values, character, and spiritual growth. This approach can lead to a more fulfilling and enduring partnership and steer the ship back to the core values and promises which we know build the best parts of the world.

Society has shifted to a world where “betas” and “soy-boys” can eat the fruit meant for the alpha of old without the pain and suffering required to plant the tree and tend the garden. The outcomes of this shift are vast, and most glaringly prevalent in who our women select to provide for them.

In the realm of improving physical, metal and spiritual prowess (ability development), the concept of “consistent persistence” plays a pivotal role. Just as muscles grow stronger through consistent training, our ability to acquire new skills thrives when we apply similar principles.

Fishers of men.